My mother grew up in a small town in Pennsylvania. Her family didn’t have much money, but my mother made it to Penn State anyway (her straight A’s probably helped). She majored in journalism and wrote for the Daily Collegian. Since this was the early ’60’s, most college educated women became teachers or nurses. When my mom walked into her first professional newsroom, she was the only woman not getting coffee.
My mom dealt with being young, female and hot (she still looks so good) in a profession dominated by older men in the coolest way possible – she taught herself to drink martinis and swear like a sailor. And she became the first woman general news editor at a respected news organization. She met my dad because she was his boss (this was the mid-’60’s).
Eventually she married my dad, helped him found the company they work at to this day and had me. She worked and was still “The Picture Lady” at my school (she came in and taught us about great works of art). To this day she supports me in too many ways to count and STILL brags about my ballet performances. The only time she has ever lied was to tell me about Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. And as soon as I got old enough to question them, she told me the truth. When I loudly asked what a douche was as we were surrounded by businessmen on a crowded airplane, she did her best to answer me. She reads ALL of my blogs.
My mother will tell you that she’s pushing seventy. She will tell you that after she gets home from the gym, cleans the house, works in her garden and makes a fantastic dinner (with candlelight!) or goes to ballet class, goes to work and makes a fabulous dinner. She will tell you that after she outruns my children. She will tell you that after she has a couple of martinis. She will tell you that while she hauls a huge sack of peat to her garden. She will tell you that as she puts on high heels made in Italy and an above the knee skirt and you realize that her legs are better than yours.
Have a wonderful birthday, Mom.













17 responses so far ↓
feener // February 28, 2008 at 9:48 am |
wow, i want to see her photo, she sounds amazing and what a role model. kudos.
anglophilefootballfanatic // February 28, 2008 at 11:38 am |
What a great tribute to an awesome woman.
anne // February 28, 2008 at 11:54 am |
That’s a nice truibute… I work at a newspaper and we still have a lot of those old guys floating around. Most of the good ‘ol boys have adapted. Sort of.
Thalia's Child // February 28, 2008 at 12:12 pm |
Your Mum sounds like an awesome role model, and a remarkable woman!
Happy Birthday JerseyMum!!
jerseygirl89 // February 28, 2008 at 1:53 pm |
feener – I don’t usually do photos, but I’ll see what she says.
AFF – She is pretty awesome.
Anne – It seems like that type never dies off.
Thalia’s Child – She definitely is!
LunaNik // February 28, 2008 at 3:49 pm |
Dude…your Mom sounds AWESOME!!
I can only wish I have that much energy when I’m older.
Happy Birthday Mom!
spyscribbler // February 28, 2008 at 4:57 pm |
Wow, what a dream to have such a mother! She sounds awesome.
After Stephanie Plum, Jersey sounds pretty romantic to me!
Happy Birthday to your mother!
Mama Zen // February 28, 2008 at 5:50 pm |
Happy Birthday, Jersey Girl’s Mom!
Leslie // February 28, 2008 at 6:57 pm |
Your mom sounds awesome!
You’re not so bad, either.
matteroffactmommy // February 28, 2008 at 9:30 pm |
i love your mom! thought i’d stop by (finally) and see what your blog is like… no wonder you’re so popular!
i’ll be back…
Kathryn // February 28, 2008 at 10:39 pm |
What a fabulous post for a fabulous lady!
Happy Birthday, Mom!
MamaGeek // February 28, 2008 at 11:17 pm |
Happiest of birthday wishes to one awesome Mom! Beautiful tribute.
jerseygirl89 // February 29, 2008 at 10:28 am |
LunaNik – I wish I had her energy now!
Spyscribbler – Thanks! She is awesome.
MamaZen – Mom says thank you!
Leslie – You are too sweet.
Matteroffactmommy – Thank you for coming by and for thinking I’m popular!
Kathryn – Thank you (mom says thank you too).
MamaGeek – Thank you so much!
Ohio Cousin // February 29, 2008 at 3:35 pm |
Please pass along my belated Happy Birthday!!!
canadianflake // February 29, 2008 at 5:07 pm |
wow you are lucky to have such an awesome Mom…
Happy Belated Birthday Mom!!!
Jen in MI // March 1, 2008 at 10:13 pm |
She sounds like a true hero. Happy B’day to her!
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