Dirty Little Secret

BAM!

May 6, 2008 · 23 Comments

I swear to God this blog is going to get more cheerful soon.

But probably not today.

Yesterday, I was driving Ironflower and Lovebug to my parents’ house to spend the night so that I could go see Hot Guy in a play reading. I was all set to drop them off and then drive to the train station so I could go into the city – where I haven’t been for ages – when BAM.

And then there was another BAM.

I was rear-ended. It felt like she had her foot on the gas pedal, she hit us so hard. Twice. (though she claims her brakes went out).

Anyway, the kids began crying. I began hyperventilating while telling them that everything was okay. My head hurt. The kids said their heads hurt. I called my mom to meet us while the other driver called the police (at my insistence).

The cop called the ambulance.

By the time the EMTs were checking the kids out, they were fine. Enjoying the attention, even. I was a wreck.

My mom took the kids with her and I went to the ER to have the baby checked out. I called Hubby from the ambulance and convinced him that he couldn’t leave the play (which has no understudies) when everything was probably fine.

I was in the hallway of the ER for three and a half hours. Meanwhile my neck began to hurt. A lot. I was also shaking. A nice woman – wife and of the guy parked behind me in the hallway – got me a blanket and talked me through my first crying spell. Her name was Sylvia. i wish I could send her flowers.

Finally they put me in a “minor treatment” room. They sent me to the ultrasound suite eventually. The tech – who had been called in – was SO nice. Baby was fine. But she seemed worried about me and got me some juice and warm blankets. I guess not eating or drinking for ten hours had gotten to me.

Hubby came soon after I got back to “my” room. That’s when I really cried.

My neck was x-rayed, but apparently it’s just a strain. Which hurts. We left the hospital around 11:30pm, with instructions that I am on bedrest until I see my OB.

See you all in a few days.

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23 responses so far ↓

  • Kathryn // May 6, 2008 at 8:57 am | Reply

    Oh my. That is scary! I’m so glad you are okay and I can completely understand why you were so shaken. I was in three car accidents (none were my fault!) while I was pregnant with my first child. I didn’t want to get back into a car after that. So scary.
    So glad you are all okay!

  • Jess // May 6, 2008 at 10:12 am | Reply

    Holy Crap, Mama! I’m so sorry. Let me guess- the driver was on a cell phone?

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    Take good care of yourself!

  • Meredith // May 6, 2008 at 10:20 am | Reply

    That’s so scary! Especially since the kids were in the car with you. I’m glad everyone is mostly alright and hope your neck feels better soon!

  • feener // May 6, 2008 at 11:15 am | Reply

    yikes, take the dr. advice and REST

  • AndreAnna // May 6, 2008 at 11:16 am | Reply

    Oh geez!! You poor thing! Rest up and keep us updated. I’m sure everything is fine but LISTEN to the docs and chill out till you get the green light. Whiplash hurts like hell anyway and you will be thankful for the rest.

  • LifeAsIKnowIt // May 6, 2008 at 11:33 am | Reply

    Oh no! I’m so sorry! How scary and stressful and nervewracking for you.
    Try and rest (as much as possible with 2 kids anyway). Feel better soon.

  • mkate // May 6, 2008 at 12:33 pm | Reply

    Oh no!!!! I can’t believe it! I am glad that you are okay and hope that you don’t have any lasting affects. Was the car totalled?

  • anglophilefootballfanatic // May 6, 2008 at 1:38 pm | Reply

    Oh, sweetie. I was in a wreck with SD at 32 weeks. I know how scary it is. I’m sure it’ll be okay. More scaring the living shit out of you than anything else I bet. Did the ultrasound show any body parts??:}

  • kendra // May 6, 2008 at 1:40 pm | Reply

    Just take care of yourself. Holy Moly! What a scare.

  • wordvixen // May 6, 2008 at 1:48 pm | Reply

    Ouch. :-( Sorry it happened, but I’m glad you’re ok. Get some rest-now’s the perfect opportunity to get other people to do things for you. :)

  • Karly // May 6, 2008 at 3:04 pm | Reply

    How scary! Glad you and the kids are okay. Get some rest!

  • Becky // May 6, 2008 at 3:34 pm | Reply

    OHMYGOD.

    I’m sending furious get-well vibes your way STAT.

  • HRH // May 6, 2008 at 9:11 pm | Reply

    I am so glad you and baby are OK. How scary for you. Sending very gentle hugs.

  • Lisa // May 6, 2008 at 10:29 pm | Reply

    I am glad that you and the baby and those cute kids of yours are all OK. PLEASE promise me you’ll take it easy?! I will call you for a grocery list.

  • CC // May 6, 2008 at 11:33 pm | Reply

    Very bad news!! I’m glad it wasn’t worse. Feel better ASAP!

  • love2run45 // May 7, 2008 at 9:37 am | Reply

    Good grief! You’ve had quite a rough go lately! Hang in there and get lots of rest!!! Give your hubby and kiddos hugs from me and you can have one for yourself too! :)

  • Jen // May 7, 2008 at 10:43 am | Reply

    I was read ended when I was pregnant and I know that even a minor car accident is very, very scary when you’ve got a little one along for the ride. I’m glad you are all (relativly) ok. Be extra kind to yourself for a little while.

  • silken // May 7, 2008 at 3:07 pm | Reply

    oh jerseygirl! so sorry all this stress is happening to you right now!! glad to hear that all is ok. hope you get the rest you need!

  • Worker Mommy // May 7, 2008 at 3:08 pm | Reply

    Aah man that sucks, but I’m happy you’re all ok!

  • Jenni // May 7, 2008 at 10:28 pm | Reply

    Oh, you’ve had such a time of it! I hope you get some rest and that Mother’s Day is the beginning of the best part of pregnancy!

  • Colleen Katana // May 8, 2008 at 7:03 pm | Reply

    Oh my god! Jersey, I hope you are doing all right! So, so scary…I feel for you. I know this uber awkard cause we’re only internet friends and all, but it you need anything (seriously) I’m not so far away. Even just a nice shipment of some trashy magazines. Ugh…well I hope you have a happy, relaxing, restful mother’s day!

  • LunaNik // May 10, 2008 at 1:06 pm | Reply

    Oh no! I hope you feel better soon and I am soooo glad it was only a minor accident and no one was hurt badly. Hugs and kisses and feel good wishes!!!

  • canadianflake // May 15, 2008 at 9:11 am | Reply

    Thank god for Sylvia. I started to shake just reading this post…I can only imagine how scary it must have been for you and the kids.

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